Omgosh she sell the Omega watch that hubby gave to her before we got married !!!
I can’t f*cking belive this , it’s a gift from my husband and she sell it for 5 milion rupiah !!
I don’t understand with my mom, i bought her a car before and she lost the car and now she sell the watch hubby gave for her. Hubby bought it about 200.000 yen about $ 1850 .
Wanna know why she sell it, she told me it’s because i didn’t send her money this month and the watch is running out of battery !!!!
I’m tired with her…
I can’t even save money just because i have to send her money every month, i don’t have any fucking job here !
And she won’t understand that !!!!
She used to say that i’m the one who made her life misserable, but now she’s the one who make my life difficult.
I just don’t know what to do now…
I understand she don’t have someone to take care of her, she got divorced twice in her life, but what about my life.
I’ve been providing her life and my step brother life since i got married, almost 4 years now.
I wonder when can i have my “real” happy life …i cried again today sigh..
I can’t help it, typed this entry with the tears falling down on my face…
Sorry to hear about your mom selling the very expensive watch.
. Hope you can fix this problem with your Mom soon.
Awe, Leony, it must be so difficult for you…
Even though she is your mother, you must not take the blame and shame for things that she does, sweetie – she’s a grown up and must be responsible for her actions. I hope your inlaws and especially your husband appreciates that, but I reckon they will, knowing what a sweet person YOU are! {{hugs}}
Thanks Tammy
Yeah thanks birdie. I just felt like she didn’t appreaciate all the things i gave to her.
I’m Just tired birdie…
{{hugs}}
Yeah thanks birdie. I just felt like she didn’t appreaciate all the things i gave to her.
I’m Just tired birdie…
{{hugs}}
tesss
tesss
*sigh* I’m so sorry to hear that Leony
susah ya kalo punya ortu seperti itu. on the one hand, kita udah jenuh dgn tingkah laku mereka. on the other hand, kita tetap harus bertanggung jawab soalnya mereka ortu kita sendiri. susah ya 
kenapa sih kok ada ortu yg nggak bisa ngertiin penderitaannya anak sendiri. rasanya egois banget deh
i’m really sorry leony. i honestly hope there’s something i can do to help 
*HUGS*
aduh Leony, pasti kesel banget ya? I hope by the time I wrote this you already feeling better >:D<
Take care sweetie, sometimes we all wish we can choose our own parents…
Awwies.. Birdie is right Leony. Even though she is your mom, she should still take responsibility for her actions and let you be happy in your own life. Too much stress for my poor Leony. -huggles-
Thanks rachel.
Iya susah deh punya ortu kalo nga ada suami gini.
Gini lah kalo keluarga berantakan.
{{HUGS}}
Thanks otty , yes i feel much better now
Thanks Jen, i guess you guys are right.
But i just can’t ignore her, she’s my mother for better or for good.
The only things that made keep me thinking straight maybe my personality.
And my old memories.
{hugs}
Poor leony…. why don’t you just cut the money you usually send to her? for example, u usually send 1000 yen, cut it into 250 yen
just for example…
lol tya, it’s not about the money it’s about appreciate something that people gave you
tess
ahh.. i hope i can comfort you sis.. really.. emang susah kalo punya ortu kaya gini.. kaya kata Rachel.. kalo mama aku sih.. dimusuhi sama mertua.. jadi dulu juga sengsara gitu karena bukan menantu yg dipilihin buat papa.. jadi aku sedikit tau gimana rasanya kalo ga dihargai.. hope you have a strong heart to through this hard time sis *hugs*